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hospital window
01.29.06 (1:13 pm)   [edit]

A great note for all to read it will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking. 
 
Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man could! n't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.

He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.

It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

Epilogue: There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.

Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.

If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.

"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present."

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err.. it's my birthday!
01.11.06 (12:49 am)   [edit]

yep! it's my birthday today. but it seems like an ordinary day. hmm.. dunno what i should really be feeling. but if there's one thing i've realized, that is i don't have much friends in life. only few people remembered my birthday, and those friends i wasn't expecting to forget this day actually did. still, a big thanks to those who greeted me; thru sms/email/phone/friendste r/and of course physically (you know who you are)

these are the times when you would realize the value of your friends. or should i say, the importance of having true friends. i know for a fact that i've never been such a good friend to my friends. neither am i good at keeping in touch.. and i'm guilty of that. i'm aware how i missed most of the chances of having my relationships with people deepen. guess that also explains why i'm starting to go out more often and all that.

oh, and you know what it's kinda funny when you tell yourself you're not expecting something, yet at the end of the day you'd get disappointed if it didn't happen. have you ever felt that? just like when i thought someone might be coming and when i called up this evening, i was like 'ok, so she's not gonna show up' lol

anyway, surprisingly i received an sms from a friend i met online. then i just begun to open up to him and told him this day just seems so ordinary. and he told me things that made me feel special and loved. he is, btw, of almost same age as my father's. it's actually a good thing sometimes to have a conversation with someone ahead of you and to tell you bluntly i enjoy talking to him. he's like my confidant. we talk about anything, mostly about life, and i learn alot from him. also, two days before my birthday i got an off-line msg in ym from a long-lost friend i haven't seen nor talked to for like two years. it wasn't a bday greeting though, but what a surprise! :)

hmm.. what else? umm, i cried on my birthday! haha.. while i was taking a bath this evening. Now, isn't that pathetic? LOL don't know why.. nostalgia? or just being emotional since it's my bday.. whatever. all i know is that i better sleep now coz i have an exam at 9 o'clock tom. Toodles!

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